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Why do fools fall in love

Did you know that somewhere in this world, a reindeer will return your bow? If you ever found one, I highly recommend feeding it.

But you may not find it if you go around looking for one. Keep these thoughts in mind; they might find their way towards you. 

I started 2024 feeling unsettled. Things were all over the place in 2023, and there was never a recap. The thought of this wave passing through 2024 was really disheartening. But, the world's miracles would indeed come from sources one least expected. Suddenly, a swoosh of energy came fast and struck me hard. I didn't know it then, but those energies were absorbed, not thrown. 

It was the most beautiful thing I have ever experienced since I first learned how to walk. 

Three days ago, I stepped into a room full of strangers - where I would typically choose a quiet corner and comfortably set up my private space. In the machismo, stoic Tariq way, I would keep my pride high and try to be the Sigma who answers all questions. But instead, I walked up to an open table and introduced myself, "Hey, I'm Tariq. Nice to meet you all". Then someone asked, what do you do for fun? I said, "Well, I do a lot of things, the usual running and working out, but of late, a certain someone and I spoke about children's education, and that is what we'll be focusing on now. Hopefully, one day, we can start something extraordinary!

Wow. Where did that come from? Instantly, I felt the warmth in the room. My mood was at an all-time high, as if there were no worries in the world, having great conversations, and I became the crowd's favourite in the next three days. I became the Alpha in the room. 

It felt great!

However, the world has its way of reminding us that it is not all fairy and magical. I was suddenly caught in a near-death situation, and had I not had the strength, I might have met my faith.

It was a sudden realisation that life can be really short, and I am thankful to be spared and allowed to live another day. Whilst Frankie Lymon & The Teenagers thought that heart skipping a crazy beat was terrible, try skipping a few additional beats. That one second, suddenly, my subconscious showcased me with what I should cherish.

And that was when I realised that perhaps being foolish just for this one time might be good. I May be right, or I May be wrong. Doesn't matter. Just keep looking forward and be happy :)

After all, there are millions of reindeer in the world; how many times will
one come across one that bow? I'll be frank. The chance is almost zero. I have come to terms with the fact that none exists. 

Except that, I found one - one that gives me a lot of strength :)

And stop listening to Frankie Lymon because, Dear Frankie, why do fools not fall in love?

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